Wednesday, June 18, 2008

He Has A Name!

We officially named him Bradyn Michael. We had it narrowed down to two names we really liked and we decided this morning as we were leaving. His official name is Bradyn and we will call him Brady as a nickname. It will be hard to call him his new name, since we’ve been using his Russian name for the last 3 days. Although, we both felt like his Russian name really didn’t fit him.

We forgot to mention the good news yesterday…as soon as we entered the baby home, after visiting him only 1 day, we signed the acceptance paper. There was no question in our mind about having this little guy in our lives, so we went ahead and signed the papers on the 2nd day!

Now for today…a bit of a heartwrenching day, as this was the last time we will get to see him until we return for the court day. Every moment we spent with him was precious and we savored every last bit of him. He arrived today in his finest Russian costume…complete with velvet pants, vest, and bow tie! What a sight for sore eyes!! Once again he came through the door with those big blue eyes and a huge smile when he saw us! He immediately began the “walk back and forth between mama and papa” game with a big smile. Today the room we were in had a rug on the floor and we were allowed to let him crawl. So, the game was short lived when he realized we would let him down. We were so happy about that because we were questioning if he were able to crawl…well, that question was answered…not only can he crawl but he can do it FAST! We broke out in a sweat trying to keep up…he broke out in a sweat because he was dressed to the nines in various layers. We played hard for an hour and a half and then he started to get tired. He actually fussed a little today and we were able to cuddle and reassure him, he nestled right in and started sucking his 2 fingers to self-soothe. Then we had to say good-bye…we both held him and told him we loved him and then the intepreter took him out of our arms. Packing up his toys was a bit of a teary blur, but we managed to make it through. Then we asked if we could see where he eats and sleeps and they allowed us to peek in through the door. What an extra special treat, as we got to peek at him one last time…his finest Russia clothes were put away and he was wearing purple tights and an orange shirt and was playing with the other children. We feel assured that he is well loved and taken care of at the baby home. We then went and bought 2 huge packages of diapers to leave at the home and then we headed back to our hotel. Of course, we immediately looked at the pictures we took and teared up most of the way back.

Tomorrow we will complete some more paperwork and start packing to head back on Saturday.

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry you had to say goodbye,
my heart has been breaking all day for you two, as I knew this would not be easy, I'm sure Brady will be waiting as patiently as you will, for your return, and his trip home, I pray that day will be soon.
I love the name, now I'll practice using it.
We love you and will be anxious for you to get home.
Love ya Mom & Dad Grandma & Grandpa

Anonymous said...

Welcome Bradyn....what a strong name, we love it. Hope you have a safe, quick trip home so you can turn right around and go back.

Anonymous said...

CONGRATULATIONS, Mike & Heidi! We're so excited for you guys. Sounds like you've found a keeper.
The Lee-Hartley connection continues, as Bill's birth name was Braden and our grandson Joey's middle name is Braden!
We're praying for a quick and successful court date. Thanks for the great blog to keep all of us up to speed with your adventure.
As participants in the adoption triad ourselves, you know even though the adopted child didn't grow under your heart, he sure grew in it.
Love,
Bill & Shirley

Troy and Rachel said...

Sounds like you had a great day on one hand and a sad day on another. Keep smiling though because he is already your son and you are already starting your journey back to him. We are so happy for you guys!

Nancy said...

It is heart wrenching to leave such a sweet baby. But, remember it is moving the process along to when he will be in your arms FOREVER!

My prayers are with you during this tearful stage of the journey.

Love the name! Brady is such a very lucky little boy!